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Before Relationships

B4 Relationship SOULution is an intensive 16 week

VIP course for midlife singles

to heal before getting

into a relationship. 

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Let's see if the B4 Relationship SOULution course is the right fit for you!


In This Course, You’ll Learn:


End Toxic Cycles

  • Become aware of your own relationship patterns and end your toxic cycles with people, beliefs, addictions and places

  • Identify the barriers and beliefs that may be holding you back

  • Learn about why spirituality is important in healing and the difference between spirituality and religion


Learn to Love Yourself

  • Love yourself without ego or guilt

  • Practice forgiveness with yourself and with others

  • Be your true self in any situation and silence the inner critic

  • Master multiple techniques to increase and maintain your confidence


Find Balance in Life

  • Learn proven tools for time management, productivity and efficiency for a balanced life

  • Learn how to create more space to allow new experiences in your life and to become who you truly are

  • Experience the true freedom of choice and feel inspired to create the work, personal, and romantic life you truly desire


Healthy Boundaries

  • Learn to say 'No' without feelings of shame and guilt

  • Learn how to implement tools and techniques to set healthy boundaries

  • Learn how to communicate your boundaries with confidence

  • Learn how to manage confrontations, conflicts, and negative reactions


Communication Skills

  • Learn how to actively listen and communicate effectively 

  • Learn how to present yourself in a comfortable manner in social situations

  • Learn how to connect meaningfully with other people and build loving friendships and relationships


Build Your Confidence

  • Learn how to eliminate the negativity that has imprisoned you from achieving your personal best

  • Learn how to heal abandonment wounds and reframe the fear of rejection

  • Learn how to reduce your nervousness and social anxiety

  • Learn practical strategies, techniques and methods for building confidence

Attract The LIFE & LOVE Your SOUL Desires

This Course Is For You If:

  • If you are a midlife single (30-65)

  • You are ready to heal past wounds

  • You are ready to end toxic cycles

  • You can commit to participate in the weekly trainings

  • You are ready to implement the tools and techniques that are taught in this course

  • You can support other group members in a positive way

  • You want to create a positive space for healing and growth

  • You have a growth mindset

  • You are ready and willing to dig deep and do the work it takes to heal



  • 35 hours of virtual live trainings over 16 weeks

  • Printable workbooks for weekly growth work

  • Group Coaching by two qualified and multiskilled Coaches

  • Weekly group live Q&A sessions

  • 1 to 1  Coaching sessions by a qualified and multiskilled coach

  • Telegram VIP support group

  • Access to recorded trainings


  • One year membership to B4 Relationship SOULution Academy – a private support FB group of people who value growth and healing. Get additional support by posting in the group.

  • Bonus Live Monthly Trainings from Coaches, Healing and Growth Experts and Professionals

  • Access to Video Trainings

  • Make Commission on Affiliate Links for Referrals

  • Other Bonus Content





Hello, I'm so glad you are exploring growth and healing for yourself. Over the past 15 years I've been on personal development and healing journey. Much of my journey has been focused both on professional development, as an Entrepreneur and Sales Professional, as well as personal development and healing from CPTSD, Covert Abuse, Addiction (13 years in recovery), Codependency, Anxiety, Depression and ADHD.


The first part of my journey, I was in the Pharmaceutical/Medical Sales Industry and spent all my shield time listening to audiobooks and podcasts along with many personal development conferences, workshops and webinars. My passion for helping other heal had me shift gears into being a Certified Life Transformation and Dating & Relationship Coach.


I am an International Best Selling Author of: I AM: How to Release the Shame of Narcissistic Abuse & Transform Financial Poverty to Wealth Beyond Numbers


I am a Multi-Passionate Entrepreneur. A Life Transformation and Dating & Relationship Coach. A Business & Brand Coach for Coaches. An International Professional Speaker & Podcaster and Mental Health and Neurodiversity Advocate


I am the founder and CEO of Mindful Missions Global and The Solo Date Challenge. I host of two podcasts: "The Solo Date Challenge Podcast" and "The Healing Playground." TikTok Channel called "The Healthy Daters Club."


I facilitate group coaching and offer 1 to 1 coaching, online workshops and healing retreats.


My main mission is to help people break toxic cycles that are holding them back in all areas of their life. I help people learn how to love themselves unapologetically.I help them gain confidence and believe in themselves, so they can attract the LIFE and LOVE their soul desires. 


I grew up in Lexington, KY and have been living outside of Louisville, KY since 2008. I am a single mom of two exceptional boys. I'm in a very healthy committed relationship, where we both have done the work to heal our past wounds. I love anything in nature, I'm an avid hiker, caver, and camper, I also enjoy anything that involves water in nature.  I'm super creative I love art.- digital art & graphic design, photography, vinyl crafting and painting.

Watching people have massive life transformations and taking quantum leaps in their healing and relationships brings me so much joy.  Helping people is my passion.  I look forward to working with you in the very near future. 

XOXO-Holly Hartman


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A little over 10 years ago, I decided to become a Navy SEAL.


I was trained for this role by a former SEAL who spent a year breaking me down and rebuilding me into someone who could get through the training.


“The most important thing” he told me, “is 3 words…”


Just. Don’t. Quit.


I carried this mindset with me through bootcamp, BUD/s, and Hell-week.


Just when it seemed that victory was within my grasp, the unthinkable happened.


I woke up out of a coma.


Traumatic Brain Injury.


My mind and body had been destroyed by a drunk driver and in the blink of an eye, my life was shattered.


The identity that I’d worked so hard to build had been lost just like that.


Crippled by fear, shame, and self-doubt, I spiraled downward for nearly a decade before nearly ending my own life.


When I was at rock bottom staring into the abyss, I had a realization…


I didn’t have to live like this. There had to be a way to rebuild myself and create a new life.


So I set off to discover how. This led me to studying with Buddhist Monks, Neuroscientists, and the world’s leading Psychologists.


The transformation was nothing short of miraculous, and people began to notice.


I’ve taken the principles I learned from the Navy SEALs, Buddhist monks, and cutting-edge neuroscientists and fused them together into my powerful Warrior-Monk system (or SHARK method) that delivers life-changing results for myself and clients:


• Selling businesses for multiple 7-figure exits

• Saving millions by avoiding a costly divorce

• Breaking company sales records month after month after month

• Promoting from worker bee to C-suite management in

• Reviving a dying business off of life support and turning it into a sold-out, business with a 6-month wait list


For the last 2 years, I’ve been working as a Performance Mindset coach for entrepreneurs, executives, & sales pros.


I’ve helped over 125 high-performers eliminate fear, doubt, and self-sabotage so they earn more income, get more energy, and get the freedom they’ve always wanted. So if you're not getting the results you want in your business, send me a message and I'll help you fix it.


See you on the other side. -Zach


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Before I met Holly I was absolutely lost in where I and what I wanted in my life. After spending time being coached and experiencing her knowledge and energy to help people, I was able to weather a deep depression in the form of a dark night of the soul that lead to my own spiritual awakening.

Her tips and tools for moving forward as an individual pushed me through codependent and people pleasing blocks that held me back in all areas of my life.

One of my favorite days was taking myself out for a date based on Holly’s guidance and I had SO much fun seeing I was ok on my own, so I could be my best with others.


Now I feel so great, confident and even moving forward in my own business; I can’t thank you enough!!

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Holly, you are a ball of positive energy.  You took your trauma that you went thru and turned it into something positive. It’s impressive you don’t seem to dwell on the past other than using it as a stepping stone to go forward.


I admire your open-mindedness and non-judgment.  You are a great listener and very respectful of others boundaries. You seem to have the energy and curiosity of a 7 year old with wisdom of an 80 year old, which is inspiring.


You have inspired me to solo date and love myself.

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Once in a while a human comes through my life in such a way that I am forever changed. Holly Hartman is such a human. More than once she has gone the extra mile, gave me a space to vent various issues that were going on, and solidly guided me back to Source and to myself.


I'm a big fan of Neville Goddard and that ilk which produced Rhonda Byrne and Wayne Dyer and all of that. Holly has hit a formula. If you practice what you want long enough it will eventually come to you because what else can it do? You're already living it...


She is an AWESOME coach and I highly recommend ANY Product or Project she has produced or will ever produce! 

John W

Allan S. PhD

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